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My name is Mia Holley. I'm just the average hip-hop loving, comic book reading, punk rocking, loudmouthed, photographer, movie appreciating, awkward, girly-girl that you can find anywhere. Oh wait, you can't. I guess that's why I'm here. And so; may the force be with you, oh great artists, intellectuals, vigilantes, and jedi's alike. Stay weird, my friends.
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Friend Zone
Now between bitching males and feminists (who are usually women) defending themselves, I have heard too damn much about the “friend zone” recently. Allow me to put an end to this fuckery. To guys: shut the fuck up. You did not get put into the “friend zone”, you got rejected. The friend zone is lie. The truth is, there’s something about you that the girl doesn’t like, but because she doesn’t want to tell you that and hurt your feelings, she says, “I value you too much as a friend, and I don’t want to ruin that. Let’s just stay friends.” Yea, it sucks, and yes, it has happened to me, but I’m honest enough with myself to take it for what it is. Think about it: NOT dating someone cause you get along? Shit makes no sense. So what does make sense? There’s another reason for someone not wanting to date you. Oh shit, I think I’m onto something!
And women who say, “Oh, so we can’t just be friends? Are you only nice to me cause you want to sleep with?” sometimes the sad truth is, yes. (Shit some people don’t even believe guys and girls can be “just friends” but that’s besides the point) Don’t ask questions you don’t want the answer to. Other times that’s not the case. Sometimes guys have the purest intentions of just being friends, but if feelings develop can you really blame a guy for trying to pursue them? I’ve also heard women say, “Just cause a guy is nice to me, doesn’t mean they deserve to have sex with me.” I agree 100%, but of course men are gonna complain when they get rejected, because that’s shitty, and it hurts your ego. What do you expect man? Guys got feelings too. But, if women would stop using the “friend zone” line, guys wouldn’t complain about it. So next time just reject a guy properly, cause saying, “I only see you as a friend.” isn’t as easy of a let down as you might think anyways.
Oh, and I’ve been hearing women say that they got, “guy zoned”. That’s bullshit too. Women started that, how can you fall for it? Like I said, there’s another reason for it.
Chris dropping some proper knowledge on your asses! Write a book.
