Bullshit. Most people who say this, aren’t telling the complete truth, I’m sorry, they’re just not.

Before I begin my tirade, let me just say this: there is a body type out there for women of which I find to be very attractive. I’m not very particular about the body types of men. I’m saying this now so you understand that I am being completely honest with what I am saying here. Here we go.

1. It upsets me when people say “all sizes are beautiful” but don’t actually act out on it. For example, you have girls who say this, but will whine and complain on how they are so “fat and unappealing” and wish to be a size 0. But hey, don’t you think all body shapes and sizes are beautiful? Then why do you hate your body? 
2. What I find even more obnoxious, is when people yell at other people for either not liking (being attracted to) to themselves or others because of their size or physique, especially when said person who is not liking said other person, says on a regular basis that “all sizes are beautiful” Listen, you can say all sizes are beautiful as much as you want, and fully mean it with every bone in your body, but you’re attracted to what you’re attracted to. If you like muscles, you like muscles. If you dig a chick with curves, that’s just your cup of tea. You can still think that everyone is beautiful in their own way, but that doesn’t guarantee attraction to all body types. 
3. Stop bitching that there aren’t enough curvy models out there. Last time I checked, the plus size model industry is pretty damn large (stop it, that wasn’t meant to be a pun) and they’re PROUD to be plus sized models. They’ve got some meat on their bones! They’re healthy and loving it! They’ve got curves and aren’t afraid to show it! They love themselves for that! So stop giving shit to the runway models out there who are practically skeletons. Some of them could very well be that naturally thin. That does happen. And designers design for women that way because their bodies don’t distract from the garments. They resemble a hanger in that they’re just meant to make the clothes more noticeable. OH. I almost forgot! Those Victoria’s Secret models that you wish weren’t so damn perfect? THEY HAVE CURVES YOU MORONS. They have boobies. And asses. And that hourglass figure thats HOT. You bet your ass they weigh more than runway models! 
4. Believe it or not, some men out there can be just as self conscious about their body as women. I hate girls who are saying “Oh he is only dating her because she’s thin and I’m fat” okay, no. There could be a multitude of reasons. Don’t go immediately to that one. When us girls gush over male celebrities and how we find them sooo attractive, it gets to guys. I mean it, it does. Maybe not as MUCH as it does for women because we’re always put in the public eye BUT - they get just as intimidated and shy about themselves when they’re not built like a male model sometimes just like we get shy about Victoria’s Secret Angels. Stop putting all the body hating towards women, men sometimes feel it too!
5. The most important thing - weight doesn’t matter. It really, really, doesn’t. I promise you, full heartedly, it doesn’t matter. I’m not going to be a hypocrite and say that I worry about my weight from time to time, and I’d like to maintain my small size forever, but I know for a fact that may not happen, and I’m growing more and more content with that as time goes on. No matter how much weight you lose or gain, you’ll still be the same person. No matter how much weight my friends lose or gain, I’ll still love them all the same. Sure, the more you’re built like a model, the more attention you’ll get from other people. Whatever. But is that all that matters in life? Of course not! And if it matters that much to you, just work out, be healthy, do whatever makes you happy. Be the weight that makes you happy if that matters THAT MUCH to you. People will love you or hate you no matter WHAT weight you are, so as long as you live your life and just be the way you want to be, weight really doesn’t matter! It all depends on who is attracted to what, so don’t think for one second that just because some person out there doesn’t like you for what you are, that you’re not beautiful. That no one will be attracted to you. And that the reason why that person didn’t like you in the first place was because of your weight! The whole thing, the whole concept, the whole obsession is POINTLESS. And this is the last time I’ll ever address it. 

Oh, and just to restate this. I’m not trying to be harsh, or mean, or anything really. Just honest. I personally think that a woman with curves is sexy, but just the right amount. But that’s just what I find attractive. And for men, well, I dislike muscles. That’s pretty much it. 

Stop freaking out about your bodies.