ericesecstatic:

magicalmalady:

ericesecstatic:

magicalmalady:

Since when is kissing or making out with someone grounds for being a slut? Or, since when is it ever okay to go around slut shaming someone, for any reason, let alone because they made out with someone’s former romantic interest?

Ouch. That’s kinda harsh. But I actually know the whole story, I’m kinda in the middle. This person is for sure talking about a slutty slut-slut. Mhmm.

I do not know whatever the back story is, but slut-shaming is really never okay, regardless of what someone does. If they lie, cheat, steal someone’s partner, have sex w/ tons of people, so what. It’s nobody’s business but theirs and whomever their partner(s) may be.

Mehh, I still don’t see it as “right” though. To go behind a very close friends back, just for a quick fling that will end up hurting much more then the other persons feelings. Just watch what you do to who and with who is all I’m saying.

Yeah I don’t know any of you, but although that it’s true that “slut-shaming” is a pretty judgmental thing to do, it’s really a morals thing. I personally would never entangle myself with my best friends ex boyfriends/girlfriends. To me, that’s just creating drama out of a situation where to me, is untouchable. It’s just unnecessary. You follow me? You catch my drift? I mean, it’s one thing weather the ex surely means nothing to that person, and the issue behind being involved with said ex has been discussed with said friend. But do you really want to involve yourself in the shit storm thats very possible to happen by going around and doing that? To me, that can be an issue through trying to gain power, being manipulative, being desperate, and or bored. Unless you have genuine, in love feelings with your friends ex…well…then that’s your own battle you have to be willing to step your foot in. But when it’s just making out with your friend’s ex which you know means something to them? Well then yeah. You may not be a slut but you’re no angel.